Dissolving Boulders I: The Spoken Word

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Lindsay F Babich
 

Wonderful Rita - manifestation goes both ways as you point out. I have a serious question about the last affirmation you included:

Affirmation: I now affirm that nothing and no one can stand in the way of my good.

I am holding a belief (BS) that using a negative in an affirmation is unproductive. Like saying "Don't Drive Drunk" has been critiqued as encouragement to "Drive Drunk" as the brain does not understand - or utilize - the negative. The substitute is generally thought to wisely say "Drive Sober."  For your affirmation would it not be better to say simply, "Only Good Comes to Me!" 

Perhaps, this is nitpicking and that's what I am seeking your wisdom on. 

So appreciative of your contributions. ♥️

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Rita Scheibeck
 

@Lindsay F Babich Oh my gosh, Lindsay, you're really making me work for this one--I love it! It's one of the reasons that writing for ADL is so rewarding. It stretches me to grow as a thinker and as a communicator, something I believe I'll always need. 

I've written down so many things to formulate an answer for you that I'm going to write a whole article about "denials." I'll publish it after this little series I'm publishing now. 

I'm not sure I can answer your question, even to my own satisfaction, because of my personal hesitation to use "denials," which is similar to what you're asking about. 

My "short" answer to you today is that you're correct that the phrase "nothing and no one" uses  two negative words. I use both negatives here because they are strong nouns of absoluteness, that is to say, "without restriction, exception, or qualification." There would be many ways to say the same thing using only positive words, but to me, by comparison, they wouldn't emphasize the completeness of my intention for the affirmation. 

So in this particular case it boils down to personal preference that depends on the strength and boldness you want to use for the sentiment you're expressing. The affirmation the way I wrote it is technically a denial. You'll rarely hear me use one of those for myself personally, and I'll explain that in my new article. Most of the time I agree with you that affirmations are more effective if they're written with positive words. But you've caught me going me going against my normal patterns, Lindsay! You're keeping me on my toes. Thanks!



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Lindsay F Babich
 

"...they are strong nouns of absoluteness, that is to say, "without restriction, exception, or qualification." " Thanks, Rita.  Now I can chew on ABSOLUTENESS for a while! I do a lot of reading on Quantum Physics and Quantum Mechanics so the concept is really intriguing.  My current thinking is that any word that absolutely affirms and "cements" the positive affirmation/manifestation (what is) is additive. Looking forward to your article on Denial.  I can think of dozens of people (public and private) who could give master classes on that topic. I am certain that your article will not focus on the denial of facts (or will it and what's the difference?). 💖

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